Two Chinese men talking Chinese (in a western crowd).
Focus on the minimum. Its important to have a balance when it comes to giving and receiving. Dignity, principles and self-preservation will be excellent tools. Think carefully before agreements. The issues are centered on wishes that may or may not come true. Its not like you can snap your fingers and be where you want. There is a lot of mental activity and not everyone is able to understand and be on the same page. You have difficulty saying no. Concentrate on your new found view into the universal whole. Its best to avoid confrontation and wait for some bridges to be crossed later. There is an old Chinese Proverb that says, “A thousand cups of wine do not suffice when true friends meet, but half a sentence is too much when there is no meeting of the minds.”